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Thursday, June 18, 2009
Daily Reading & Meditation
Thursday (6/18): “Your Father knows what you need before you ask him”
Scripture: Matthew 6:7-15
7 “And in praying do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do; for they think that they will be heard for their many words. 8 Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him. 9 Pray then like this: Our Father who art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. 10 Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, On earth as it is in heaven.11 Give us this day our daily bread; 12 And forgive us our debts, As we also have forgiven our debtors; 13 And lead us not into temptation, But deliver us from evil. 14 For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father also will forgive you; 15 but if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
Meditation: Do you pray with joy and confidence? The Jews were noted for their devotion to prayer. Formal prayer was prescribed for three set times a day. And the rabbis had a prayer for every occasion. Jesus warns his disciples against formalism, making prayer something mechanical and devoid of meaning, with little thought for God. When Jesus taught his disciples to pray he gave them the disciple’s prayer, what we call the Our Father or Lord’s Prayer. This prayer dares to call God “our Father” and boldly asks for the things we need to live as his sons and daughters.
It is through the gift of the Holy Spirit that we can know God personally and call him “Abba, Father” (Romans 8:15). We can approach God our Father with confidence and boldness because Jesus Christ has opened the way to heaven for us through his death and resurrection. When we ask God for help, he fortunately does not give us what we deserve. Instead, he responds with grace and favor and mercy. It is his nature to love generously and to forgive mercifully. When he gives he gives more than we need so we will have something to share with others in their need as well.
God is kind and forgiving towards us and he expects us to treat our neighbor the same. Do you treat others as they deserve, or do you treat them as the Lord would treat you with his grace and favor and mercy? Jesus’ prayer includes an injunction that we must ask God to forgive us in proportion as we forgive those who have wronged us. Ask the Lord to free your heart of any anger, bitterness, resentment, selfishness, indifference, or coldness towards others. Let the Holy Spirit fill you with the fire of his burning love and compassion and with the river of his overflowing mercy and kindness.
“Father in heaven, you have given me a mind to know you, a will to serve you, and a heart to love you. Give me today the grace and strength to embrace your holy will and fill my heart with your love that all my intentions and actions may be pleasing to you. Give me the grace to be charitable in thought, kind in deed, and loving in speech towards all.”
Psalm 97:1-7
1 The LORD reigns; let the earth rejoice; let the many coastlands be glad!
2 Clouds and thick darkness are round about him; righteousness and justice are the foundation of his throne.
3 Fire goes before him, and burns up his adversaries round about.
4 His lightnings lighten the world; the earth sees and trembles.
5 The mountains melt like wax before the LORD, before the Lord of all the earth.
6 The heavens proclaim his righteousness; and all the peoples behold his glory.
7 All worshipers of images are put to shame, who make their boast in worthless idols; all gods bow down before him.
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Father Leo’s E-Mail Blast for 06/18/09
Uplifting Throwdown with Bobby Flay!
How can a “throwdown” be at the same time “uplifting”? During last week’s Food Network shoot, I was surprised to learn I was actually competing in a food-for-food, recipe-for-recipe, grill-for-grill competition in an episode of Throwdown with Bobby Flay. On the menu? Fajitas—one of Bobby’s specialties. Ugh! And yet the challenge of going up against the critically acclaimed Chef Flay completely uplifted me.
First, I was nervous enough being in front of the camera. Who knows what they will edit out, or worse, leave in the footage? I thought I was simply filming a cooking Q and A with families, but then, as I was explaining the dry ingredients in the marinade, Bobby Flay stands off to the side, slightly out of my view.
At one point I heard rustling and the sound of excitement from the crowd. But, I just thought the crowd was reacting to some of my “special ingredients.” I was so focused on speaking to the camera that it took a few moments, as well as the producer pointing in Bobby’s direction, for me to turn and see him standing right there.
Bobby Flay, standing right in front of me! Huh?
Then it hits me. Oh my Good God in Heaven, he’s going to challenge me to a Throwdown!
Me on set filming with Food Network. Unfortunately, I can’t post the pictures from the Food Network taping until after the show airs in a couple weeks.
I can’t remember exactly how he proposed the Throwdown. It was too surreal! I just knew I couldn’t turn down that opportunity. Although I was tired from the previous day’s shoot and very intimidated by a super chef, something kicked in: “grace” before the meal. I accepted! And, I’m so glad I did.
Challenges will definitely come our way. Challenges will surprise us. Do we back down out of fear? Or do we move forward, albeit cautiously and prayerfully, and therefore confident in God’s help? Do we see in each challenge a real opportunity to grow stronger and to be better?
Last year’s Rector’s Cup Soccer Champs – Team Mount St. Mary’s took on the challenge of four other seminaries for the championship!
Part of me wonders what exactly would have happened if I said, “no thank you” to Bobby’s invitation? After all, he’s an Iron Chef, and I’m a priest who likes to cook. While my cooking has won over hearts and minds, and has perhaps turned a few people into believers, I have never won any culinary awards. My recipes have no notoriety and I have no real stature in the culinary world! Who am I that a great chef would come to me?
Me with some seminarians, taste testing Salmon Florentine.
However, I did have a very special ingredient: faith! That helped me remember that with God, all things are possible!
Faith also helped me remember one of the first “throwdown” challenges in Biblical History. It was when God sent His Son down into our world to an unknown virgin. She accepted this challenge, and I’m so glad she did!
Annunciation of Angel Gabriel to Mary – talk about a challenging situation!
Talk about a real struggle and challenge to bring life into this world. But the challenge wasn’t to upset world order or degrade our humanity. Instead, every real challenge is supposed to lift us up. The “challenge” is to live better lives; to bring out the best in us; to bring us to His level.
In human analogy, that’s what Iron Chef Bobby Flay did for me. His years of epicurean study, training, practice and experience meant that I was no match for him. But, he challenged me nonetheless, despite my unworthiness in the culinary arts. In fact, when Food Network called me a while ago, I honestly told them that I’m not “good enough” for them.
It’s the same, but elevated to the highest level, when we stand before God. No one is worthy to stand before the Eucharist! When Bobby Flay came to me to challenge me, he made me work harder in my cooking skills. His presence encouraged me to put my best foot forward. God is the same way, but to the ultimate degree. He challenges us to become saints—people who will feed the poor, care for the sick, forgive those who hurt us, and console the empty spirit of godlessness in this starving world!
That’s what people of greatness do. They elevate and uplift, rather than “put down.” That was definitely my experience of this Throwdown Challenge with a great chef, and seemingly, a great person!
Msgr. Nalty, a great friend of mine from the North American College and my assistant grill master for the day, offering a few reminders and pointers, like “fix your collar”!.
My experience with Chef Flay will be with me for a while. I’m still processing this great experience, so you may hear even more about this in future Blasts, especially as the network premieres the episode. Sorry for repeating myself. But, I learned so much from that challenge, and it encouraged me to keep doing what I do in my ministry: to feed people, body, mind and soul. This truly was one of the most uplifting Throwdown “challenges” I’ve ever had.
Grilling Goodness
Who won the Steak Fajita Throwdown Competition? Good question! The network has asked that no one reveal the winner just yet. Hopefully the challenge to keep the winner a secret will entice even more viewers to watch the show that will air some time in late summer. And I don’t want to jeopardize the chance of the show not airing because of bad press. So, if you were part of the crowd – Shhh!!!!
Fr. Leo, Msgr. Nalty, and some seminarians who helped serve the steak fajitas.
Don’t worry. I’ll definitely let you know the exact dates, especially since we may be hosting a screening party somewhere in the Baltimore area. Should be lots of fun, so stay tuned.
The challenge with Chef Flay reminded me of another fun grilling recipe we featured last year when we offered tailgating recipes. In these webisodes we talked about competition and how it’s supposed to bring the best out in competitors—not the worst. I would have loved for Chef Flay to try my mini Asians burgers. I think he would have loved them! They have been a big hit with viewers. I’d love to offer this to you all again, just to put you in the grilling and appropriately competitive spirit.
Click here for the recipe.
Click here to see the video.
Spiritual Competition
This week, I’ll be giving conferences in Steubenville, Oh for the Priest, Deacon and Seminarian Conference. Then next week, I’ll give some talks for a youth conference.
June 12, 2008 – Steubenville Priest, Deacon and Seminarian participants.
Whenever I go to these conferences, I find myself challenged by the holiness and goodness of the participants. Their great, yet humble example helps me see that we are all in need of “spiritual competition” in order to make ourselves spiritually stronger and personally better. Perhaps we ought to consider the people who build us up and why? How can we improve our relationship with people who, in their greatness, may tear us down? And how can we help build up the spirits of others.
Let us Pray: Father in Heaven, You came down to us in order to challenge our sinful ways, to show us Your greatness and to invite us to the same glory. We ask Your goodness on all of those who we consider mentors. We ask Your grace so that we can become people who challenge others by helping to bring out the best in the other. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Rome, 2008. Msgr. Nalty and the Watkins Family at Scarpone’s Restaurant. Tim Watkins (top left) is the producer for Grace Before Meals, and his family, as well as Msgr. Nalty, have been great supporters of this important movement of the New Evangelization.
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Thursday, June 18, 2009
Sad News: Hannah Garman has died
Sad News: Hannah Garman has died
Tonight at 5:45 Hannah went home to be with Jesus. She was surrounded by family & passed peacefully. Right now I’m pretty exhausted. It’s been a long day. Please pray for the family & me over this tough time.
Darin

Christ Jesus, most merciful Saviour,
Hear our prayers as we gather in Your name
We commend this child into Your arms of mercy.
Hannah Garman has been a blessing to all who knew her.
She brought laughter, warmth, and comfort to many
And in the moments when her father, Darin, and others showed despair
Hannah provided a noble message of hope and promise,
in her unfailing conviction that her life here may be limited
but is by no means final.
Grant comfort and strength to those who gather here now,
dedicating their lives to the care of others,
who often must face life as it moves to shadows.
Embrace them with Your eternal love
through everything they do.
Thank you for the love we would never have known,
but for Hannah’s brief days with us.
May the angels and the saints surround Hannah
and welcome her with joy.
Lord God, we commend this child to Your everlasting care.
In the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Amen
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/hannahgarman
Arrangements are made. The viewing will be Friday night & the funeral will be Saturday, all at our home church, Middle Creek Church of the Brethren.
As I spent time today reading the hundreds of responses, I was again overwhelmed. Through the tears, I realized that I have had a lot of help the last 7 months & to guide me through this rough week. My biggest thank-you goes to my parents who really put their life on hold for the last 7 months to care for my precious Hannah. I know I wouldn’t have been able to handle everything without all the love & sacrifice they’ve given to Hannah & myself. I just hope that I can be the same parent to my children that they have been to me.
I would also like to thank everone of you out there that have prayed, sent cards, gifts & inspirational messages to our entire family throughout this ordeal. It’s hard to put into words how much of a blessing this has been for our family. I would like to thank our ministry team & our church body for their constant support & numerous meals they have given to us. Thanks also go out to our great EMS crews for their wonderful rally for Hannah over Christmas. Hannah really enjoyed the evening & loved the avalanche of cards they started. We continued to get cards every week & she ended up with around 170000.
Sometimes, when I start to wonder why, I realize that God has already revealed part of his plan to me. I see it in the thousands of lives Hannah has touched. She has touched more lives positively in just a short time than a lot of people will in a lifetime. Hopefully, we can all learn from a 5-year-old girl & all be a better person in this world. Yesterday was really rough as Hannah’s condition rapidly changed. I know that she is in a better place & is painfree, but it’s still really hard watching a loved one pass away. Please continue to pray for me & the family as we go through the next few weeks & especially the next few days. Also keep me in your prayers as June 30th is the 3rd anniversary of my wife’s death.
I’ll finish on a positive note. The last few hours of Hannah’s life, most of what she said wasn’t understandable. About 5:00 she said “momma” as plain as day. I just know that my wife & Jesus were waiting for her with open arms to come to them & she had a brief glimpse of that before she passed on.

